Conflict to Connection
A free course for parents living with explosive behaviour
Developed by a registered psychologist with 25+ years’ experience,
and grounded in an internationally proven model.
Finally, a step-by-step way to stay calm, confident, and connected, even when emotions run high.
Many parents find themselves caught in daily battles, big emotions, or endless conflict.
Standard approaches like punishments, rewards, or withdrawing don’t always help.
When emotions are high, it can be hard to know how to respond without making things worse.
This course provides a clear, supportive framework that helps you respond effectively and stay connected, even in the toughest moments.
The Conflict to Connection program is delivered in clear, step-by-step modules that are relevant for families navigating a wide range of challenges, from everyday defiance through to more serious and even violent behaviours.
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Proven strategies that work
This course covers key topics in short, accessible videos
Understanding your child’s behaviour
Children have two key factors that influence their behvaviour.
You'll learn:
why your child can be defiant, angry and aggressive, no matter how loving you are
the foundation for self-regulation
Understanding this concept is a lightbulb for many parents.
Understanding escalation
Escalation is rarely about a single moment, and it's often about the long-term interactions.
This section helps you understand:
why escalations happen
what maintains them
how small changes in your responses can shift the pattern
All without arguing, giving in, or losing your authority.
De-escalation
De-escalation is not about being passive or permissive.
It’s about:
knowing when to engage and when to pause
reducing fuel in the moment
building calm authority over time
Small shifts here can make a big difference.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to be endlessly calm or endlessly firm.
You don’t need to have all the answers.
You just need a clearer map of the storm you’re already in.
About Tamar Sloan, Psychologist
Hi, I’m Tamar. I help parents who are living in the thick of challenging behaviour — the defiance, the aggression, the explosive moments that leave you exhausted and questioning yourself.
With one of the highest levels of training in Relational Parenting, I use it in a way that’s easy to understand and doable on even the hardest days. My goal is simple: to help you feel calmer, more confident, and more connected with your child.
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