
Help for Parents of Explosive or Aggressive Children
When yelling, threats, or physical aggression have taken over your home, and nothing you try is working.
You’re not a bad parent.
You’re dealing with a high-stress pattern, and it can change.
Confidential • Parent-only • Telehealth
This support is for you if:
Your child’s anger escalates fast and feels impossible to stop
Arguments turn into shouting, swearing, threats, or breaking things
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells at home
You’re worried about safety — emotional or physical — in your home
Staying calm hasn’t helped, and being firm makes it worse
You’re exhausted, anxious, or starting to dread being at home
You’re worried about where this is heading
Many parents come to me feeling ashamed, scared, and completely worn down.
You are not alone in this.
I work directly with parents to:

Understand why escalation keeps happening

Protect safety while staying connected

Interrupt destructive cycles without punishment or giving in

Rebuild parental confidence and authority calmly
"Behind every great child is a parent pretty sure that they are screwing it up."
-Unknown

I’m Tamar Sloan, a registered psychologist with extensive experience supporting parents of children with intense, challenging behaviours.
My work focuses on helping parents regain clarity, confidence, and safety — even when things feel out of control.
I work with parents, not by labelling or pathologising children, but by strengthening the adult response that shapes what happens next.
Telehealth sessions available Australia-wide.
Start with a free 15-minute Parent Support Call
This short call is a space to:
briefly share what’s happening at home
get clarity on whether this support fits your situation
discuss next steps if you choose to continue
This call is for parents only, your child does not need to be present.
This is not therapy and there’s no pressure to commit.
Most parents start with a
short-term parent strategy package
focused on:
de-escalation
safety
reducing explosive patterns
restoring calm leadership at home
Some families continue into ongoing support; others don’t need to.
We'll talk this through on the call.
You don't have to do this alone.
If your home feels tense, unpredictable, or unsafe right now, getting support is not a failure,
it’s a protective step for everyone involved.
Help is available.
Got questions?
That’s very common. The support call is a space to talk through what’s happening and decide whether this approach fits your situation, there’s no obligation to continue.
Absolutely — the approach I use is designed to support children with neurodiversity and big emotions. Many of the families I work with have kids who are autistic, ADHDers, highly sensitive, anxious, or easily overwhelmed. Relational Parenting isn’t a one-size-fits-all framework; it's adaptable, compassionate, and grounded in understanding your child’s nervous system. We work together to tailor strategies to your child’s wiring so they feel safer, more regulated, and more connected to you.
It’s very common for partners to be at different stages of understanding or readiness. You don’t need both parents to start for change to happen. When one parent begins responding differently — calmer, clearer, and more consistently — the family dynamic shifts. Your partner often comes on board once they see the impact. If they’re open to it later, I’m happy to support them too, but we begin with wherever you are right now.
If you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to help, that’s usually a sign the strategies weren’t matched to your child’s emotional needs (and lots of parenting strategies don't fit these kids) — not that your child is “unhelpable.” My approach is designed specifically for kids with explosive, oppositional, or aggressive behaviour. We focus on connection, safety, and reducing escalation, not punishment or power struggles. While no therapist can guarantee outcomes, parents consistently tell me they feel more equipped, more hopeful, and see meaningful shifts in their child’s behaviour over time.
No — not at all. Traditional programs often focus on rewards, punishments, or managing behaviour from the outside. My work is the opposite. It’s relational, evidence-based, and centred on your child’s nervous system, your connection, and your ability to hold calm, confident boundaries. This isn’t a course you “complete”; it’s personalised support that meets you where you are and guides you through real change, even on the hardest days.
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Registered Psychologist – PSY1889559
Level IV Accredited NVR Trainer (NVR UK)
SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions) Certified
Member of NVR UK
Member of Australian Association of Psychologists Inc.